I just quit my job.
Which might sound strange since I work for myself.
I’m burned out – been working too hard, to the point where every waking and sleeping moment was about work. Everything blurred to the point that I forget what a day off looks like.
The results got too important – I got attached to the outcome, and started to feel a lot of pressure to make things happen. (Which is ridiculous!)
So I quit. At least for the next four days I’m only going to do what I want to do. As my good friend Nicole Daedone said: “It just has to feel good”.
If I don’t want to speak to groups – I won’t speak. If it feels like too much pressure to put the pitch and sales stuff together, I won’t worry whether I sell anything at the end of the speech. I’m done going for book endorsements unless they feel natural and fun. And I’ve chilled out about selling it to a publisher. (In my mind it’s already sold and published, and it will do how it’s going to do).
I don’t have to earn any money in the next 12 months. I don’t have to sell one product. I don’t have to travel anywhere I don’t want to, or for longer than I want. I don’t have to hang out with anyone I don’t want to – regardless of the business opportunity they might bring. I don’t ~need~ to write a book, and if I do, I don’t need anyone to buy it.
Being hyperfocused can be a gift. I get enormous things done in a short period of time. And…there’s balance.
Will this last past Dec 27? I don’t know. But it’s feeling good right now, and I’m enjoying LOST and reading up on the environment.
So I quit.
I quit my own job.
David
I’m interested to know what else you would add? What would you take away?
Introduction
Chapter 1–Is it truly possible? Busting the 5 Myths
Chapter 2–Your Life Experience is Valuable
Chapter 3–The ‘David 7 Step’ – an overview
Chapter 4–Step #1: How to Uncover Your True Niche
Chapter 5–Step #2: How to Set Up Your Web Site in 7 Days
Chapter 6–Choose Courage, not FearChapter 7–Step #3: The Foundation of Your Empire – Your Newsletter
Chapter 8–Step #4: A Short Cut to Product Creation – save 6 months!
Chapter 9–Your Key to Playing Big
Chapter 10–Step #5: Build Your Coaching or Consulting Revenue Stream
Chapter 11–Step #6: How to Drive Massive Traffic to Your SiteChapter 12–Step #7: How to Create Your Own Product in 14 days
Bonus Chapter–How to Build a Massive Email List
Conclusion: Getting Paid for Who You Are
Interested in what you would add or take away…
David
An agent I approached over 2 months ago about a SEPARATE book, on relationships, just got back to me with a YES. They would like to represent it.
This puts me in a bit of an awkward position as I’ve already approached another agent about both books, and won’t know for a while if she’s on board or not. Hmmmm….
Meanwhile a third agent has heard about the book and is interested, but I just can’t see there’s a lot of point in shopping around for agents, can you?
Meanwhile I’ve heard of a great publisher – an entrepreneurial publisher – which would be straight forward and not even require an agent. I’ll keep you posted as things develop…..
David
Continuing my mission to include you in the entire process of writing a best-selling book…
I’m happy to announce the latest book endorsements are from good friends:
– Marcia Reynolds, Past President International Coach Federation and author of Outsmart Your Brain (who wrote a very personal, heartfelt endorsement), and
– Marcia Wieder, author of Making Your Dreams Come True
Jay Abraham has graciously agreed to take a look at the book outline, and I’m approaching the wonderful Deepak Chopra, Neale Donald Walsch, Steve Wynn, Richard Branson, and maybe Jack Welch, I haven’t decided yet. Plus one more mystery person who shall remain nameless until I know the result.
The proposal is being edited as we speak, and I still intend to mail it out to my agent of choice December 14.
Cheers,
David
